If not me, then who?

introduction
🌹You can also call me by my nicknames: Val, Tino, Mitya or Miya.
*I use any pronouns but he is preferred.
🌼 INTJ || 1w9 || 146 (1w9, 4w3, 6w5) || so/sp || ♐♉♊
🌺 I'm a guy blooming in space who wishes to not be forgotten. A connoisseur of many non-serious things.Very important to note
I am very busy and if not, very unstable, so please don't expect immediate responses if not an emergency. Should you need any other messaging platform to contact me, please let me know. Do know that I'm more active on Discord.

⚠ do not interact if;

➤ -ist (Racist, Sexist, Ableist, etc.)
➤ -phobic (Homophobic, Transphobic, Xenophobic, Islamophobic, etc.)
➤ Zoophiles, Pedophiles/Lolishota likers, Pro-ship, Zionist
➤ a minor. 20+ following only.
➤ People who make rape jokes, etc.
➤ People who thrive on discourse. Please take that away from me!Anyone who tolerates these are immediately getting a block. I don't tolerate assholes.

✓ do follow if;

➤ 20+ individuals who share the same fandoms as I do.
➤ If you are understanding of my inactivity.I think that's about it? I'm not too picky with mutuals, so as long as DNI is fulfilled. :]

About me

  • The name is Valentino, your average "lost in life" adult. Born in '98. I'm from Southeast Asia and a Filipino, so my first language is FIlipino. I may end up saying things in English wrong so please be patient with me.

  • I am a genderfluid transmasculine guy who is very feminine as a form of gender expression.

  • I am taken and have a long distance fiance who lives in Canada!

  • I work as a legal secretary and I am an active trans advocate.

  • I am neurodivergent and currently surviving and recovering from severe life trauma, especially in the recent years, so please, PLEASE be patient with me. I suffer from Bipolar I, OCD, ADHD and PTSD. All pretty bad, but I'm making by LOL.

about me

  • I infodump a lot and is very talkative when I have the energy and/or when I'm comfortable with you. My thoughts tend to be lengthy and incomprehensible sometimes.

  • I do have periods of inactivity, and I almost always reply late. I hope that doesn't hinder you from communicating with me, however.

  • I use and would prefer to have tone tags be used at me as I tend to misinterpret text messages.

  • I do readings, commissions and other gigs from time to time! If interested, check the "comm offers" tab to learn more.

  • I kin to cope and mostly for fun and have been since a decade ago. If you don't know what kin is, here is a rundown of its basic definitions and terminologies. Examples of my kins are in the *major kins" tab but you can find the full list here

  • Please tag these for me if possible: death and death related topics (important), accidents, hospitals, abductions and kidnapping, physical, emotional and sexual abuse.

favourites

fave books & manga
gintama. hoozuki. one punch man. naruto. haikyuu. mob psycho 100. etc. Rest are in my MAL.
interests & hobbies
animanga. video games. astrology. history & politics. music. visual and performing arts. esoteric practices. linguistics, typology, gender studies, cybersecurity, etc.
fave anime
gintama. hoozuki. touken ranbu. fullmetal alchemist. mashle. saiki k. kekkai sensen. gangsta. knb. haikyuu. naruto. MP100, etc. Rest are in my MAL.
fave music / band / idols
itou kashitarou & other utaites. one ok rock. yaelokre. ninja sex party, dragonforce, mitski, basia, tina turner, carpenters, air supply, james ingram. etc.

Major kins